Notes on Becoming
About
A quiet exploration of the stories, beliefs and behaviours that shape what we become.
Every business has a story.
Every family has a story.
Every leader has a story.
Every person has a story.
Some stories build confidence.
Others create fear.
Some inspire growth.
Others quietly limit what we believe is possible.
Over time, I became fascinated by those stories.
Not because they were dramatic.
But because they quietly shaped everything that followed.
This website explores what creates them.
Not through theory.
Not through self-help.
But through careful observation.
The notes draw from business, leadership, entrepreneurship, technology, family, travel and everyday life.
The subjects change.
The underlying question rarely does.
What shapes the lives we build?
On the surface, this website is about business, leadership, succession and behaviour.
In reality, it is about people.
Everything else is simply another way of understanding ourselves.
Behind every behaviour lies a belief.
Behind every belief lies a story.
And sometimes, changing the story changes everything that follows.
I’m Alann.
Over the years, I’ve worked across business, technology, entrepreneurship, insurance and digital marketing.
Those experiences gave me questions. This website is where I try to understand what they mean.
Writing forces me to slow down. To observe more carefully. To ask better questions.
And occasionally, to discover answers I wasn’t looking for.
If something here helps you see your own story a little differently, then perhaps this website has served its purpose.
— Alann Toh